DID YOUR HEART JUST MELT INTO A PUDDLE OF GOOP?! If not, you may just be a MONSTER - WHY ARE YOU LIKE THAT?!
G.
Tuesday, 15 October 2013
The cutest cat picture I have ever seen
We all love a good cat picture. Today I came across the cutest one ever.
Wednesday, 9 October 2013
Bloom
I'm a big fan of a Melbourne indie band called The Paper Kites. They've been around for a few years, released a couple of EPs, and this year they've released their first full studio album. Their music is extraordinarily beautiful.
I've had this one song called "Bloom" in my head for the last few days, and it's one of those songs that makes my heart ache because it's so gorgeous. I'm sure everyone can relate to it in one way or another.
In the morning when I wake
And the sun is coming through
Oh you fill my lungs with sweetness
And you fill my head with you
Shall I write it in a letter?
Shall I try to get it down?
Oh you fill my head with pieces
Of a song I can't get out
Can I be close to you?
Can I be close to you?
Can I take you to a moment
Where the fields are painted gold
And the trees are filled with memories
Of the feelings never told
When the evening pulls the sun down
And the day is almost through
Oh the whole world it is sleeping
But my world is you
Can I be close to you?
Can I be close to you?
I hope these guys make it big, yet never lose the essence of what makes their music great.
G.
Tuesday, 8 October 2013
11 questions every twentysomething should ask
I came across an articled called "11 Questions Every Twentysomething Should Ask" by Paul Angone today. This is in the exact same vein as the "What to know at 25-ish" article by Shauna Niequist that I posted a few months ago. But it's a good article in and of itself, and I want to share it.
http://www.relevantmagazine.com/life/11-questions-every-twentysomething-should-ask
http://www.relevantmagazine.com/life/11-questions-every-twentysomething-should-ask
"11 Questions Every Twentysomething Should Ask: Questions to Help Move On from 'What Now?'
Your twenties can be a rough time. You graduate college. You get a job—not necessarily the one you always dreamed of. You may move to a new city and start trying to establish yourself. But a lot of the time, you're just not sure where you're headed—or even where you want to be going.
Often, the question of “what now?” plagues us in our twenties like chickenpox. The more we scratch, the worse it itches. The overwhelming vagueness of “what am I doing with my life?” can crush us like the bully who sat on our head in third grade.
Our twenties can feel like being smothered in questions, but if we don’t ask the right questions, we will forever remain stuck.
After years of struggle, studying, searching and being un-glamorously squashed over and over again, here are 11 questions I believe every twentysomething needs to ask to be successful:
1. Do the people I’m surrounded by bring me life?
Are your friends taking steps forward or are they still playing beer pong in the basement? Do you leave from hanging out with friends feeling anxious or alive? Are your friends anvils tied around your ankles or jetpacks helping you fly?
Your life will resemble the lives of your closest friends—does that fact excite you or freak you out?
2. Who inspires me the most?
Think about the one person you most want to emulate. Who is it? Now what is it about their story or character that draws you to them? Write down the words that come to mind. The person you want to be like the most tells you a lot about who you hope to become.
3. What are my favorite stories?
What are your top three movies? Is there a common thread that runs through each story?
If you want to see what matters most to you, look at the stories that resonate the closest. For me, the common thread in my favorite movies is the underdog who perseveres through pain, thrives from their authentic self and succeeds at something sane people would never attempt.
Your core values are lying on the surface of your favorite stories.
4. Would I want to live with me?
Before you start thinking about living with someone else, do you even want to live with yourself? Have you opened up your closet doors and faced your monsters?
Too many people go into relationships hoping that they will fix all their problems, when relationships actually have the magical ability to show you how many problems you really have. Like a third-rate magician, marriage puts big things behind a curtain, but does nothing to make them disappear.
If you don’t like living with yourself, is it fair to ask someone else to live with you?
5. Do I love from my insecurities or do I love from my strengths?
Your twenties can be a rough time. You graduate college. You get a job—not necessarily the one you always dreamed of. You may move to a new city and start trying to establish yourself. But a lot of the time, you're just not sure where you're headed—or even where you want to be going.
Often, the question of “what now?” plagues us in our twenties like chickenpox. The more we scratch, the worse it itches. The overwhelming vagueness of “what am I doing with my life?” can crush us like the bully who sat on our head in third grade.
Our twenties can feel like being smothered in questions, but if we don’t ask the right questions, we will forever remain stuck.
After years of struggle, studying, searching and being un-glamorously squashed over and over again, here are 11 questions I believe every twentysomething needs to ask to be successful:
1. Do the people I’m surrounded by bring me life?
Are your friends taking steps forward or are they still playing beer pong in the basement? Do you leave from hanging out with friends feeling anxious or alive? Are your friends anvils tied around your ankles or jetpacks helping you fly?
Your life will resemble the lives of your closest friends—does that fact excite you or freak you out?
2. Who inspires me the most?
Think about the one person you most want to emulate. Who is it? Now what is it about their story or character that draws you to them? Write down the words that come to mind. The person you want to be like the most tells you a lot about who you hope to become.
3. What are my favorite stories?
What are your top three movies? Is there a common thread that runs through each story?
If you want to see what matters most to you, look at the stories that resonate the closest. For me, the common thread in my favorite movies is the underdog who perseveres through pain, thrives from their authentic self and succeeds at something sane people would never attempt.
Your core values are lying on the surface of your favorite stories.
4. Would I want to live with me?
Before you start thinking about living with someone else, do you even want to live with yourself? Have you opened up your closet doors and faced your monsters?
Too many people go into relationships hoping that they will fix all their problems, when relationships actually have the magical ability to show you how many problems you really have. Like a third-rate magician, marriage puts big things behind a curtain, but does nothing to make them disappear.
If you don’t like living with yourself, is it fair to ask someone else to live with you?
5. Do I love from my insecurities or do I love from my strengths?
Loving from your insecurities demands from others. Loving from your strengths gives to them. Loving out of your insecurities means you don't want to see people succeed more than yourself. Loving from your strengths means you are the first to celebrate with others when you hear of their successes. Loving from insecurities daily demands “what are you going to do for me?” Loving from strengths asks others, “what can I do for you?” Too many people love from their insecurities, and that’s not love.
6. Where am I ripe with talent and where do I quickly deflate?
We all have talent. And we all have loads of non-talent we keep trying to transform into talent. Write down a few things you’re talented at and a few things you’re not. Then focus on the things you’re good at. Stop trying to chip away at that solid cement block when you have a soft block of cheese just waiting to be devoured.
7. What are my favorite hobbies/things I do for fun, and are they something I can leverage into a career or product?
I recently heard John Saddington speak, a serial entrepreneur who’s probably best known for creating Standard Theme for WordPress, and he urged the crowd to examine our hobbies.
There is something you have spent more time doing than most people in the world. How can you leverage that experience into something that could make you money? For Saddington, he loved online computer games, so he started an online dating service for gamers. He knew the gaming world and he knew websites, so he put those two together and had an overnight success.
For me, it’s telling stories. So I started writing them down.
8. What’s the main thing holding me back?
Is it an addiction? Anxiety attacks? Depression? An obsession with pinning pictures of rock-hard abs on Pinterest while drinking? What is the main thing that is keeping you from moving forward and who can help you cut the chain?
9. What are my negotiables and non-negotiables?
What are you willing to give up and what are you going to cling tightly to? Are you willing to move anywhere, but you’ll never take a job that expects more than 40 hours a week? Is job flexibility a non-negotiable, or is it job-stability? Write a list of non-negotiables and negotiables, and then do your best to stick to that list.
10. What breaks my heart?
What injustice makes you angrier than a parrot being poked with a stick? And what’s something you can do about it right now? Knowing what breaks your heart can clarify what makes you feel whole.
11. At 29 years and 364 days, if I have accomplished just one thing, what do I want it to be?
If you only had the choice to accomplish just one thing in your twenties, what would it be? How do you take one step toward that today? Our twenties can feel like trying to walk with shoes covered in fast-dry cement, so how do we keep moving forward? Is it a phone call to ask for an informational interview? Is it asking a crush out on a date? Is it making an appointment with a counselor? What’s one small thing you can do today so that you can go even further tomorrow?"
This twentysomething thought crisis might be a continuing pattern for the next wee while. It's not because I've just turned 26 and I feel that my twenties are slipping by without any consequence, thought that may be a small part of it. It's largely because this is the stage of life I happen to be in right now and I want to live well. And these kinds of questions are geared towards that. I'm going to think about them and answer them in due course. I would encourage you to do the same if you're a twentysomething.
6. Where am I ripe with talent and where do I quickly deflate?
We all have talent. And we all have loads of non-talent we keep trying to transform into talent. Write down a few things you’re talented at and a few things you’re not. Then focus on the things you’re good at. Stop trying to chip away at that solid cement block when you have a soft block of cheese just waiting to be devoured.
7. What are my favorite hobbies/things I do for fun, and are they something I can leverage into a career or product?
I recently heard John Saddington speak, a serial entrepreneur who’s probably best known for creating Standard Theme for WordPress, and he urged the crowd to examine our hobbies.
There is something you have spent more time doing than most people in the world. How can you leverage that experience into something that could make you money? For Saddington, he loved online computer games, so he started an online dating service for gamers. He knew the gaming world and he knew websites, so he put those two together and had an overnight success.
For me, it’s telling stories. So I started writing them down.
8. What’s the main thing holding me back?
Is it an addiction? Anxiety attacks? Depression? An obsession with pinning pictures of rock-hard abs on Pinterest while drinking? What is the main thing that is keeping you from moving forward and who can help you cut the chain?
9. What are my negotiables and non-negotiables?
What are you willing to give up and what are you going to cling tightly to? Are you willing to move anywhere, but you’ll never take a job that expects more than 40 hours a week? Is job flexibility a non-negotiable, or is it job-stability? Write a list of non-negotiables and negotiables, and then do your best to stick to that list.
10. What breaks my heart?
What injustice makes you angrier than a parrot being poked with a stick? And what’s something you can do about it right now? Knowing what breaks your heart can clarify what makes you feel whole.
11. At 29 years and 364 days, if I have accomplished just one thing, what do I want it to be?
If you only had the choice to accomplish just one thing in your twenties, what would it be? How do you take one step toward that today? Our twenties can feel like trying to walk with shoes covered in fast-dry cement, so how do we keep moving forward? Is it a phone call to ask for an informational interview? Is it asking a crush out on a date? Is it making an appointment with a counselor? What’s one small thing you can do today so that you can go even further tomorrow?"
This twentysomething thought crisis might be a continuing pattern for the next wee while. It's not because I've just turned 26 and I feel that my twenties are slipping by without any consequence, thought that may be a small part of it. It's largely because this is the stage of life I happen to be in right now and I want to live well. And these kinds of questions are geared towards that. I'm going to think about them and answer them in due course. I would encourage you to do the same if you're a twentysomething.
G.
Sunday, 6 October 2013
Elevator moments
I love great elevator moments. A while ago my man friend and I got into a work lift that was full of strangers. He asked me how my work was going, and I said something like, "Pretty terrible, I'm working with a bunch of spreadsheets..." and as soon as I said "spreadsheets", the lift full of strangers sniggered. Not in a mean way, but in a "I've been there too and I feel your pain" kind of way. It was a spontaneous moment of solidarity over something that all working professionals have to deal with and clearly detest. It was incredible.
Here's to more great elevator moments.
G.
Here's to more great elevator moments.
G.
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